'Most times we keep on thinking about how our boyfriends really feel about us', whether he's just flirting or he really loves you. Well something you should know a guy can flirt by being nice, Ignoring you and even being a little bit mean to you. But you can't really figure out if his flirting with you. If you really want to know how he feels and thinks about you just follow the 5 steps listed below.
1. See how he acts around other women. If he's just acting flirtatious towards you, it probably means there's something he likes about you in particular. However, if he's flirty with all of the ladies, then he may just be a flirtatious person who is naturally charming and charismatic. The next time you're hanging out with him and there are other women around, observe the way he talks to them and treats them. If this is exactly the same way that he talks to you, then he may not be truly flirting with you
2. See if being flirty is just part of his job. If he's on the job and is a waiter or bartender, for example, then part of his job may just have to do with being flirtatious with the ladies. Don't put too much stock into how he treats you on the job and see how he feels about you when he's off the clock. This will give you a better indication of how he really feels about you. On the other hand, if he's in a more professional setting with you, he may not flirt with you on the job even if he likes you because he doesn't want to get in trouble or doesn't feel comfortable flirting during work hours.
3. See if he breaks the touch barrier. If the guy likes you, then he'll look for any old excuse to touch you because he'll want to get closer to you. He may even linger his hand near yours when passing you a pencil or he may brush up against you, put his hand on the small of your back, or just sit extra close to you so your knees or feet touch. If he seems to always be looking for excuses to touch you, then he probably is flirting with you.
4. See if he laughs at your jokes. Sure, you may be the next Sarah Silverman, but chances are that he thinks you're even funnier than you know you are, if he's flirting with you. If he likes you, then he'll laugh at anything you say, even if you're not trying to be funny. If you find him laughing way too loud when you make jokes, or even nervously laughing when you're talking about what you ate for lunch, then this may be his way of flirting with you. He's probably just laughing because he's excited to be around you.
5. See if he uses you as his lending library. If the guy is flirting with you, then he's really just looking for more opportunities to spend time with you. If he's always asking to borrow your books, your movies, or your notes for class, then chances are that he's really just looking for more excuses to talk to you and to have some of your stuff around so he can think about you even more. This may also have to do with him acting like he shares all of your interests so he can get you to like him!
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